The Queen's Proclamation

 

 

 

May 2012
News, updates, & pronouncements from Pat Ballard,
the Queen of Rubenesque Romances

Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent. 
Eleanor Roosevelt

Something to think about....

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!
 
I was having a little trouble coming up with something to write about for this section. I was temporarily blocked.
 
Then, because I missed the mail carrier, I had to take my mother-in-law, Millie's, Mother's Day card to the post office. As I drove, I thought about Millie. Then, of course, my mind went to my own mother, whom I lost in 1979, and, as usual I was swept with a familiar sadness that appears during these special days.
 
But at the same time, I realized what I needed to write about. DUH! It's Mother's Day!
 
So, for all you who still have your mother—let her know you love her.
 
For all of you who don't still have your mother—honor her by taking some time to remember her.
 
I'm sure there are a few of you who don't actually like your mom, or there may be some hard feelings for whatever reason.
 
But the fact is, without our moms, none of us would be here. They gave us life.
 
No language can express the power,
 and beauty, and heroism,
 and majesty of a mother's love. 
It shrinks not where man cowers,
and grows stronger where man faints,
and over wastes of worldly fortunes
 sends the radiance of its quenchless fidelity
like a star. 
Edwin Hubbell Chapin
 
 
A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie. 
Tenneva Jordan
 
 
The heart of a mother is a deep abyss
 at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness. 
Honoré de Balzac
 
 
An ounce of mother is worth a pound of clergy.
 Spanish Proverb


If evolution really works, how come mothers only have two hands?
Milton Berle

The formative period for building character for eternity is in the nursery.
The mother is queen of that realm
 and sways a scepter more potent than that of kings or priests.
Author Unknown

A mother is the truest friend we have,
 when trials heavy and sudden fall upon us;
when adversity takes the place of prosperity;
when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine desert us;
when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us,
and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels
to dissipate the clouds of darkness,
and cause peace to return to our hearts. 
Washington Irving

Grown don't mean nothing to a mother.
A child is a child. They get bigger, older, but grown? 
What's that suppose to mean?  In my heart it don't mean a thing. 
Toni Morrison
 Beloved (1987)
 


Hi everyone!


I'm happy to report that the Ballard household is slowly getting back to normal...whatever that is.

Husband Joe went back to work exactly nine weeks from the last day he worked. He seems to be doing exceptionally well, and I'm so very thankful for that.

I can feel my "feel good" gradually coming back thanks to the vitamin D, and my life is settling down some.

And puppy KoKo, who will be a year old on the 19th of this month, is just getting sweeter and sweeter. I'm totally in love with him now.

Son Eric and his family are well, just staying so very busy with two kids that like to be involved in "stuff."

Happy Mother's Day, and everyone have a safe and happy May.

                                 Love,

                                                  Pat

Something To Think About: Reflections on Life, Family, Body Image & Other Weighty Matters by the Queen of Rubenesque Romances

Download it for free at
http://www.pearlsong.com/newsroom/patballard/somethingtothinkabout.pdf.

                            

Visit Pat's Place at www.patballard.com | Write me at patballard@bellsouth.net
 

Click on the Bookbuzzr graphic (if visible on your computer screen) to browse an excerpt from Pat's newest book.

Dangerous Love
by Pat Ballard


Now available in PDF, Mobipocket & Kindle ebook format as well as original trade paperback!

Ava Manning has allowed her heart to be broken once. Once is enough. She never intends to let anyone get close enough to hurt her again. She just wants to do her job as a lab technician at Cloneall Drugs, Inc, without any complications in her life.

But after Ava saw some research she wasn't supposed to, someone wants her dead. And now she has to deal with the Southern talking, g-dropping, charming LAPD detective Ricky Don McKinzie.

Her life is just beginning to get complicated.

More info at the Pearlsong Press website. (All copies of Dangerous Love purchased from the Pearlsong Press website are autographed by Pat.)

You can also browse and share Bookbuzzr excerpts from Dangerous Love10 Steps to Loving Your Body, and Pat's other books online at
http://www.pearlsong.com/patballardbookexcerpts.htm.
 

Weighty Matters

Below is a wonderfully well-done and insightful article by Linda Bacon from the Association for Size Diversity and Health's blog.

The HAES Files:
Honey, I Can’t Shrink the Kids— Why the Obamas Need a New Doctor

 by Linda Bacon, PhD

In a well-meaning attempt to improve the health of our nation’s children, Michelle Obama took Americans into her daughters’ pediatrician’s office. A few years back, she recollected on the Yahoo “Shine” website, their doctor warned her the girls’ BMIs were edging up. In other words, they were getting fat.

 “I certainly didn’t know that even a small increase in BMI can have serious consequences for a child’s health,” Obama confessed. The doctor urged attention to the quality of the girls’ diets, an appropriate health consideration for any patient. But why would he need to know a child’s BMI before advising her mom to switch from soda to water? Should thinner children just drink the sugar?

http://healthateverysizeblog.org/2011/07/15/the-haes-files-honey-i-can%E2%80%99t-shrink-the-kids-why-the-obamas-need-a-new-doctor/
 

Reader Review of the Month

Editor's Note: Post a review of one of Pat's books
at an online bookstore, magazine, or public website, email us at proclamation @ pearlsong.com to let us know, and we'll consider your review for inclusion in The QP

5.0 out of 5 stars Refreshing, March 5, 2012


This review is from Nobody's Perfect (Kindle Edition)

"It was so refreshing to read a novel with a plus sized heroine who was not (1) obsessed with losing weight (2) constantly berating herself or (3) had terribly low self esteem! I absolutely loved Nella! I loved that she knew how to "Work what she has" -- that despite what others thought she knew she was fly! I also like that Pat showed that other men were attracted to her as well. Once I started reading I could not stop until I finished at 3am. You know what; I don't have a single regret while sleepy at work  Great job Pat!"
 


Browse and share excerpts from Pat Ballard's books online.

Listen to the mp3 recording of Pat, her fearless publisher, and several other Pearlsong Press authors in a Pearlsong Conversation about
creating fat friendly fiction and fat positive characters
.

Listen to a Feb. 11, 2009 Conversation with Pat Ballard
(blog post with link to 50-min mp3 recording of Pat talking about her journey to
self- and body-acceptance and -love, her writing process,
and why a truly Happy Valentine's Day and satisfying sex life
starts with loving your body,

no matter what it looks like.
 

Calendar of Events

Now available from Pearlsong Press in original trade paperback & ebook—Pat's newest book, Dangerous Love.

Pat & her publisher Peggy Elam, Ph.D. have stopped co-hosting Radio Free Nashville's Health At Every Size show, but you can still listen to or download recordings of the shows at www.healthateverysize.info or www.pearlsong.com/audio.htm.
 

Ask your public library to add Pat's books to their collection!
 

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