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Pattie
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Praise
for Taking Up Space
A reluctant warrior in a
war she did not particularly want to fight, Pattie Thomas may, in fact, be
one of its most powerful spokespersons.
In what is best described as a private diary, she shares her journey of
reexamining everything she, and every woman, has been told about being
fat, and about health and beauty. The raw honesty and emotions in
Taking Up Space are uncomfortable, even painful, to read at times.
We can't help but feel her same anger, disillusionment and anguish while
trying to come to terms with being imperfect and different in a culture
that glorifies impossibly narrow standards of beauty and health,
especially for women.
But it's a story that has never been more critical for us to read.
Our culture has this
feeling that only after fat people have "fixed" themselves and conformed
to thinness does what they say matter, let alone have credibility. A fat
woman's story might be accepted when she confesses to her sins and
embodies the guilt and flaws everyone believes she must harbor to explain
her fatness. Only a few fat women have dared to speak unapologetically
about their lives. Yet sadly, even among many of them, there's a feeling
that to justify the space they occupy in this world they must be perfect
in every way: in perfect health, with prestigious high-paying careers and
living in perfectly coiffured homes. But that's not real, and doesn't
describe nearly anyone. Our genetic makeup gives us equally diverse ranges
of health, physical characteristics, aptitudes, and sizes.
Pattie answers the need
for a powerful voice of truth in a world that disenfranchises those who
don't measure up—not just by being fat, but also by being a poor,
working-class woman with a disability.
The central fact of much
of her life was her fat body, but she never wanted it to be a central
fact. "It should
have been peripheral,"
she writes. "How
many people could write a complete book about the implications of having
brown eyes?"
But she couldn't help but take the war on fat people personally. Living in
out society as a fat person means enduring a pervasive and constant
torrent of harassment and threats, ridicule, ostracism, oppression and
discrimination, and the stress of that hurts. It harms health, too, as do
the dangerous and ineffective weight loss diets and "treatments" that have
been imposed on fat people for decades.
"There is much about
which fat people should be angry,"
she writes. And mad enough to fight back and take back the power to decide
what is best for themselves, ourselves. It's not just a fight for fat
people, but for those of all sizes, because the starving of an entire
population in the name of health threatens everyone.
"What is at stake is nothing
less than the freedom for all of us to be what our bodies are meant to be.
We are fighting for our beings, our lives."
The private has become
public. The government, medical professionals, public health officials,
insurance companies, pharmaceutical industry, employers, managed care
providers, media and researchers have made our weights a social problem
and are making money off what should be a private matter, she says. They
want fat people to either become victims by trying to lose weight and act
in need of being saved from themselves—ourselves—or they'll accuse fat
people of being villains and dragging down society.
But, Pattie Thomas
writes, "I believe
telling people what to do with their bodies is the ultimate in limitation
of the freedom of individuals."
And when we blindly accept authoritative statements, rather than look to
good science ourselves, we give them the power to oppress us.
But the government,
medical professionals, public health officials, insurance companies,
pharmaceutical industry, employers, managed care providers, media and
researchers are not our real enemy in this war. Our real enemy is the
belief that fat is bad, Pattie says.
She came to realize that
to win the war being waged against fat people we can stop fighting it. She
shows us how to live unapologetically (whatever our size), care for the
body nature gave us, and be comfortable within our own skins.
Coming to appreciate our differences and the beauty of fat, she writes, is
to say that I get to to decide what I value, what I enjoy and what I want.
"A fat woman happy
with her body is a dangerous thing in this culture."
In fact, any woman happy
with her body is a liberated woman...free to take up space.
Sandy Szwarc, RN, BSN, CCP
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Excerpts
Declaration of Taking Up Space
..a feast
of information,
ideas, talking points, discussions.
Anyone who has struggled with
weight or who works with clients
who face these issues will find
this book challenging, disturbing,
and ultimately comforting as it
attempts to change deeply held
prejudices that for most of us
are unconscious.
Susan
Hammonds-White, Ed.D
LPC/MHSP
Nashville Psychotherapy Institute
2006-2007 co-chair
Taking Up Space
is among the best
books I've read on the costs of
stigma for fat people and society.
Written for the "average reader," it
is sophisticated, funny and touching.
Dr. Pattie Thomas, with her husband
and co-author, Carl Wilkerson, have
clearly demonstrated what we at Size
Matters, Too have been telling our
clients and radio audiences for
years—size prejudice is costing our
country a bundle in wasted human
resources, and accommodating size
diversity is good business, as well as
the right thing to do.
I will be recommending this book to
my clients and my listeners. It is a
must-read for all people of size and
people of all sizes!
Veronica Cook Euell
President, Euell Consulting Group, LLC
Host, WCRS (Akron, OH)
& online radio show
Size Matters with Veronica
Taking Up
Space was so powerfully
and beautifully written that I did not
want it to end. With evocative and
witty prose, Dr. Thomas addresses
the issues that took me years to
learn: If we are ever to be content
with ourselves, we must understand
and challenge those aspects of
our society that tear us down.
As a
nutritionist who has had to
develop a new understanding of
eating and weight issues to
successfully treat my clients, it
is clear to me that Dr. Thomas
has captured the essence of what
true change and true happiness
are all about. A must-read for
people of ALL sizes. I will be
recommending this to all my
clients,
Karin
Kratina, Ph.D., R.D., LD/N
Nutrition Therapist, Author, Speaker
Nutrition Coordinator, Eating Disorders
Program, University of Florida
Thomas's incisive blend of
sociological inquiry and personal
narrative amounts to a provocative
treatise on fat oppression in our
culture. Taking Up Space is a kind
of roadmap through the minefield
of the "war on obesity," and it
offers protection to the reader
ready to fight for cultural change
surrounding the meaning of fatness.
Kathleen LeBesco, Ph.D.
Author, Revolting Bodies:
The Struggle to Redefine Fat Identity
Take it as a
given that we all come
to a new book on a certain topic or
by a certain author with expectations:
what the story will be, who will be
important among the cast of characters,
how we are likely to feel as we read it,
all the way up to how long it will take
to read. I came to Dr. Pattie Thomas'
book with 20 years of experience
reading stories of courageous fat
people's journeys from internalized
self-hatred and despair to courageous
self-acceptance. I have been uplifted,
righteously angered, and supported
in my own efforts as a fat human
being and activist by each of them. I
expected more of the same from Dr.
Thomas' book and would have been
content if that had been the case. I
also expected that it would take me,
at most, a weekend to get through
the whole thing. I was wrong.
Taking Up Space is an intelligent,
holistic treatment on the topic of fat
acceptance. Dr. Thomas has presented
her self-portrait in a manner similar
to that of some of my favorite authors.
But she has also provided the social/
political/economic context for her inner
and outer transformation and has thus
presented us with a rich and colorful
landscape in which her journey is only
one small part. Further, she points out
to each of us own our potential space
in the masterpiece and invites us to
use our own palettes to recreate the
world into a thing of beauty, recognizing
that we are already beautiful and need
only to own that knowledge. Taking
Up Space does exactly that—takes
up space in the mind and heart of
the reader, soothing and reassuring
even as it confronts and challenges.
Dr. Thomas' optimism renews my faith
that the work of one person does
matter, and that to save one life
(especially one's own) is to save
the whole world.
Claudia A. Clark, Ph.D.
Director, Association for Size
Diversity & Health
Psychologist, Counseling Center
Bowling Green State University
Taking
Up Space could be called a
memoir with a Ph.D., or it could be
called sociology with a heart. Pattie
Thomas brings to the table her
careful study and analysis of the
medical, political, and social aspects
of weight in our culture. To this she
adds her witty and deeply felt poetry,
as well as her revealing and personal
journal (and journey) on the path
to self-love. That path, she shows,
requires that fat people recognize
the bigotry that is aimed at them.
Written in a
lucid and readable style,
this book provides insights and
resources for professionals as well
as for those who struggle with issues
of weight and body image. Taking
Up Space should be required
reading for all those who want to
help make this world a better place.
Miriam Berg
President
Council on Size & Weight Discrimination
Taking
Up Space is
the poignant saga
of how one woman has come to grips
with being large in a society in which
"thin" is worshipped as the ideal. Dr.
Pattie Thomas, with her brilliant writing
style, shares the pain of her battles.
Not just the emotional and psychological
pain of being large in a small world,
but the actual physical pain of two chronic diseases with which she has to
contend.
In
Taking Up Space, Dr. Thomas often
refers to herself as the reluctant warrior.
But as she shares her battle with personal
weight issues, as she bravely takes on
the societal and medical stigmas that
daily drain people of size, she truly
becomes a brave sumo warrior who leads
the way into battle against the poison
darts that are constantly hurled at us.
Dr. Thomas
is such a good example of
what our society does to a person. She
obviously has a brilliant mind. She is a
deep thinker, a very good writer, a warm,
caring person. But all that our brainwashed
world can see is the package that holds
her wonderful mind and heart.
My heart
cries for all the time that she,
and others like her—you, me, thousands—
have lost obsessing over weight when
we should have been using that time
to make this world a better place.
Pat Ballard
Author
The personal
is political, and the political
is personal—Dr. Thomas offers her
perspective as a thoughtful sociologist
to examine the experience of being a
fat woman here and now.
A consciousness-raising group is packed between the covers of this book.
You
will not think the same way about your
own experiences after reading it.
Artful response to stigma!
Deb Burgard, Ph.D.
Licensed Psychologist &
Eating Disorders Specialist
co-author of
Great Shape: The
First Fitness Guide
for Large Women
creator of
BodyPositive.com &
ShowMeTheData.info
Health At Every Size practitioner
This book
has punch—from its personal
fat narrative to the social context that stigmatizes a proper identity.
I was struck with how powerful the story
became as the myths, poetry, and sage
advice conveyed both the dignity and
pain of a condition that is increasingly medicalized as obesity. Taken
away
from its place as a way of life and
alternative drama of experience, fat
gains embodies and personal dignity,
while also claiming a space in the social
world for one human variation among
many.
This is a story about acceptance, of the
fat self and its body, one in need of
repeated telling to others and to a public
that are largely silent on acceptability.
Jay
Gubrium, Ph.D.
Professor & Chair
Department of Sociology
University of Missouri
Dr. Thomas brings her
breadth of scholarship,
the wretched open heart of her own life story
and the sublime artistry of her poetry
into this analysis of the life of fat people.
The book centers on her life and experience
but holds the truth of the difficult world we
fat people navigate in terms of attitudes,
projections and stereotypes. It is not a
dour read but rather a call for a paradigm
shift that comes from her own mind, heart
and body. The fat community is well served
by her voice.
Tish Parmeley
Fatshadow
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